Copyright Date:
2022
Edition Date:
2022
Release Date:
05/17/22
Illustrator:
Theodore, Michelle,
Pages:
1 volume (unpaged)
ISBN:
Publisher: 1-459-82772-4 Perma-Bound: 0-8000-3615-8
ISBN 13:
Publisher: 978-1-459-82772-1 Perma-Bound: 978-0-8000-3615-7
Dewey:
E
LCCN:
2021941327
Dimensions:
28 cm
Language:
English
Reviews:
ALA Booklist
A young girl copes with the death of her mother by sitting shiva, a Jewish seven-day mourning period where the bereaved stay at home and receive solace from friends, neighbors, and family. Initially, Jenny retreats to her bedroom and wants to be alone. The simply stated, first-person narration is immediate and cuts to the heart: "There is only one person's food I want to eat. One face I want to see." When the grieving child does open her door, the visitors' love and support wrap warmly around her like a cherished hand-knit blanket. In Theodore's realistic, emotionally resonant ink-and-gouache illustrations, shafts of sunlight break through the darkness. Traditions associated with shiva are explained, such as removing couch cushions and sitting on the wooden frame ("It's uncomfortable on purpose we're as low to the ground as we feel"). An author's note about grief provides more information on how loss is honored in many cultures. This poignant story about mourning and finding comfort in community is universally relatable.
Kirkus Reviews
A child's grief is given serious, poignant treatment in this timely story of healing in community.Jenny's mother has died. This would be shocking and upsetting to any child and is no less staggering a loss for the book's young protagonist. While Jenny wants to be alone, the Jewish ritual of sitting shiva dictates that family and friends will come to her home to offer food, solace, and support. Jenny only wants her mother, but when she opens herself to the company of loved ones, she finds comfort and safety. The practice of sitting shiva is generally poorly understood, especially outside of Jewish communities; the rituals might even be frightening to the uninitiated. However, this picture book, with its lovely, warm illustrations and perfectly pitched storyline, provides an accessible introduction to shiva for readers of all ages. While the images of mourning are dark, they promote a deep understanding that unfolds gently in tandem with the text. In addition to being a story about Jewish ritual, this book is also a sensitive, powerful treatment of a child's grief, with resonant but developmentally appropriate language that will appeal to a broad audience. Jenny and her dad are White. Most background characters have pale skin, and two of them are Black-presenting. (This book was reviewed digitally.)A worthy addition to the growing shelf of picture books about loss, death, and bereavement. (Picture book. 5-12)
A little girl grieves the loss of her mother, but she cant grieve alone.
When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva, laden with cakes and stories, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold, where she is comforted by her community. By the end of the book, she feels stronger and more nourished, and she understands the beautiful tradition. Then, when sees her father sitting alone, she is able to comfort him in his time of need. Sitting Shiva is a beautiful, heartfelt story about grief and loss, but also about comfort and community. It shows that no matter what religion you practice, we are all more similar than we are different.
A note from the author explains the ritual of sitting shiva, a seven-day period of mourning for the death of a family member observed in Jewish homes.