ALA Booklist
(Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 CST 2003)
In this picture book from The Way I Feel Books series, a little bear discusses jealousy in a straightforward manner. The bear/child gives examples of when and why she feels jealous, and she observes that others (grown-ups and even pets) also feel jealous sometimes. After giving a couple of strategies for dealing with her feelings, she concludes on a positive note. The sympathetic portrayal of common childhood experiences and the simplicity of the narrative make the information and advice accessible, even to preschoolers. Spelman addresses parents and teachers in a note, discussing how to help children acknowledge and deal with jealousy. With Parkinson's appealing illustrations of dressed animals putting a child-friendly face on the message, this is a good title for school and public libraries to have on hand.
Horn Book
An anthropomorphized bear cub ruminates about jealousy: when she feels it, others who feel it, and ways to feel better when it strikes. While the abstract text would be a slog on its own, it is thankfully tethered to inviting, nuanced images of the cub experiencing the feelings described: e.g., her face makes plain her irritation that she is a less accomplished ballet dancer than her peers.
School Library Journal
PreS-Gr 2-A little bear describes situations in which she feels jealous, such as when her mother pays too much attention to someone else or when someone has something she wants, and how she copes with the emotion. Jealousy is defined as a "prickly, hot, horrible feeling" that everyone has. Children will be reassured to see that what they experience is universal and can be handled. The simple watercolor illustrations are appealing, and the cub's facial expressions reflect her feelings perfectly. A note to parents and teachers provides suggestions for helping youngsters deal with jealousy. Perfect for units and discussions on feelings.-Sheilah Kosco, Rapides Parish Library, Alexandria, LA Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.