Paperback ©2017 | -- |
Every morning, Sydney wakes up in a fog of depression. She uses routines to stave it off and get moving, but it still follows her to school like a gloomy puppy. She also suffers from social anxiety, able to interact only with a tiny handful of friends, one of whom, Paul, has developed a romantic interest in her. She wants to return it, but she keeps getting in her own way, worried about the loss of control that goes along with a relationship and sexual desire e most dangerous thing. Added to that is her family of extroverts who have difficulty understanding what she is going through, especially since she doesn't tell them anything. Against her will, she finds herself caught in her sister's "drama" of staging her own version of The Vagina Monologues, which at once annoys and intrigues her. Told in Sydney's first-person narrative, this is a quiet, gentle novel that conveys not just Sydney's pain, but also her courageous attempts to dispel the fog, even when it seems to be winning.
Kirkus ReviewsAn eleventh-grade girl wants to start a relationship but is stymied by depression and anxiety.Syd knows her depression isn't really out of control, like some people's. She can usually manage the crushing fog that weighs her down: tricking herself into getting out of bed by playing the phone game; biking around Vancouver, British Columbia, until she's exhausted; investing online with her cantankerous grandfather; eating just enough to get by. It works well enough until her lab partner, Paul, starts texting and flirting. Syd would respond in kind if she could, but she's afraid to make eye contact or have conversations with new people—how could she possibly start a relationship? Fading into the background would be ideal, but her gregarious family has other plans. Her mother, revitalizing the family Passover celebration, ropes Syd into embarrassing Jewish singalongs. Worse, Syd's vivacious sister wants to perform The Vagina Monologues for the school drama festival, and she's written her own monologue—one that uses "the c-word"! The oozing darkness that dominates Syd's thoughts is authentically represented in her present-tense narration and appropriately addressed with professional mental health treatment. Frustratingly, however, Syd's nervousness about romantic and sexual intimacy is pathologized as a curable symptom of her mental illness. An approachable, earnest, feel-good romance between a white Jewish girl and a Chinese-Canadian immigrant boy provides the flavor for a tale of recovery and empowerment. (Fiction. 13-15)
School Library Journal (Wed Mar 01 00:00:00 CST 2017)Gr 9 Up-amily, mental health, and sexual awakening all combine for an honest and enjoyable read. Sydney is struggling with depression and social anxiety. Other people are unpredictable and messy, especially when sex is involved, and she'd rather just hide in her closet and work toward a future where she can live alone and go biking whenever she wants. Biking helps lift the fog she fights every day. In the present, however, she must contend with a boy who makes her feel new things, her sister's mortifying production of The Vagina Monologues, and her Zeyda's declining health. Luckily for Syd, she has lots of support and professional help. Lieberman has crafted an engaging novel that takes mental illness seriously while presenting it as manageable, especially with professional help. The time Sydney spends with her supportive Jewish family and her dawning understanding of her parents and sister as individuals will make this complex character relatable to many teens. The protagonist's revelations about sex, her body, and feminism are developmentally appropriate, and many struggling teens will appreciate that Sydney continues to process these issues. Lieberman's story of a girl living with depression as she moves into womanhood will be a hit with fans of Sarah Dessen and Christine Heppermann. VERDICT Recommended for most school and public libraries.Elizabeth Saxton, Tiffin, OH
Voice of Youth AdvocatesFor Sydney Mizner, life proves overwhelming. She goes through the motions of everyday life simply to keep the fog at bay. Her goals consist of graduating from high school, finishing college, obtaining a lucrative job, purchasing a nice home, and spending her days hidden within its walls. Things grow complicated when Paul, her chemistry partner, begins showing interest in her. She wants to reciprocate, but the depression refuses to allow her happiness. As if the confusion and uncertainty caused by her attraction to Paul fails to produce enough stress, Sydneys older sister, Abby, decides to perform The Vagina Monologues at their school. Mortified by the idea of sexlet alone the open discussion of itthe fog begins consuming Sydney. The Most Dangerous Thing addresses depression and sex. Descriptive writing throughout the novel is simplistic and monotonous. The simplistic writing style translates into character development: Sydney seems childlike in her speech, actions, and thought processes. While secondary characters represent multicultural backgrounds, they remain two-dimensional due to lack of complexity. Sydneys parents, sister, and friends seem to serve no purpose except to propel the plot from scene to scene, resulting in little interest or connection with the characters. The basic premise of the plot tackles the very important issue of depression; however, the novel introduces multiple subplots that make the reading disjointed. Educators and librarians seeking realistic literature that discusses depression and engages readers should look elsewhere.Courtney Munday.
ALA Booklist (Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 CST 2017)
Kirkus Reviews
School Library Journal (Wed Mar 01 00:00:00 CST 2017)
Voice of Youth Advocates
Sixteen-year-old Sydney hates to talk (or even think) about sex. She's also fighting a secret battle against depression, and she's sure she'll never have a boyfriend. When her classmate Paul starts texting and sending her nature photos, she is caught off guard by his interest. Always uncomfortable with any talk about sex, Sydney is shocked when her extroverted sister, Abby, announces that she is going to put on The Vagina Monologues at school. Despite her discomfort, Sydney starts to reexamine her relationship with her body, and with Paul. But her depression worsens, and with the help of her friends, her family, a therapist and some medication, she grapples with what she calls the most dangerous thing about sex: female desire.